It feels there’s no slow motion choice, no slow lanes where we are able to knock down the speed for a bit and no timeouts to use – It’s just life played at the speed of sound.
Urgency and ASAP are the new black, and it usefully defines the pace of our day with mobile devises connecting us constantly with the rest of the world.
But there is hope: there are ways to reclaim our peace of mind and to seek out solace amid the chaos. Serenity is the oasis in the middle of the “busy-ness”.
It’s the place where we are able to re-charge before heading back into the rush.
Serenity is something you shouldn’t be dreaming of having, it can become a reality after you take specific steps to seek out it.
Becoming more resistant to sleep deprivation is not an option, because you would risk damaging your body and brain. It is more about becoming creative rather than reactive. Improving the quality of your sleep can be achieved by following this simple advices:
Unplug, disconnect and step away from your routine – if just for a bit.
The way you keep in touch with others can be what’s keeping you out of touch with yourself.
Turn off electronic devices
Take few minutes to empty your mind, before it can refill with new clarity.
You may enjoy this article to learn about the importance of un-plugging yourself and taking your alone time
Conscious breathing and Pranayama are simple and efficient practices. Pranayama is a series of complex controlled breathing exercises and is a part of ancient Yoga. Exercises where the inhale, retain and exhale times are controlled lead to focusing on oneself and on one’s sensations. The heartbeat slows down, our flow of thoughts slows or ceases, as we reach a state of inner peace. Vipassana makes use of similar techniques, as well as mindfulness training, which offers simple an easily accessible exercises.
It isn’t the reset button that has stopped working; it may be that you have stopped looking for it.
When things appear overwhelming, reach into the middle of the chaos and allow yourself to reach for it. Hitting the reset button isn’t a proof of weakness; it’s a proof of the power you’ve got over your life.
Smile at the slow checkout lines; smile at the rude store person and smile at yourself when you make a mistake – because that is completely normal. Don’t be so hard on yourself.
Laughter, together with your smile, brings serenity to even the most stressful situation.
Being angry is exhausting. Anger takes energy and time.
When you make a mistake, accept it, own it and then forgive yourself.
Regret hurts your soul; but forgiveness frees it. And in the freedom, serenity is waiting.
Finding time to acknowledge the blessings in your life is a chance to clearly see the positive.
Find a quiet place, grab paper and pen and write down the things you are grateful for , the, in your life.
When you finish, absorb the words and allow their goodness to guide you to great place of achievements, optimism and bliss.
Rather than focusing on what you don’t have, be grateful for what you do have. By living in a grateful state you are opening channels that will lead you to finding serenity in not just the extraordinary things, but in the ordinary things as well. Gratitude is the attitude.
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Joe is an established professional Writer and Conference Speaker with over 3000 articles published to date in leading magazines as well as the author of a number of books. He is also a fully qualified Life Coach, Hypnotherapist and ‘Reiki Energy Healer’ an Entrepreneur and a ‘Spiritual Teacher’ with a deep lifelong interest in Spirituality, Consciousness, Meditation and World Issues.
Joe is the author of the best-selling life-coaching book ‘100 Tips for Total Life Fulfilment’ with more books to be published in 2019 including ‘The Path to Indra’ – a spiritual diary and ‘Unsustainable Planet’
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